Long Distance Love

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April 2011

46 posts

hurricanedoris asked: Yeah I totally agree about loving and hating computers all at the same time! When it works for us it's my best friend but due to him working on a ship and them using (a crap) satellite signal I am lucky if the stupid thing works enough for us to talk once a week.

The Bane Of My Existence

Computers. Sometimes they’re my favorite thing in the world, but this is not one of those times. Wil broke his computer last night so we haven’t Skyped in over a week. We talk on the phone for an hour or so every night but sometimes that it enough. Thank goodness this will all be over in a weeks times. But what about you guys? Have any questions for me? Want to submit your love...

No matter how far away you are I still get...

Submitted by sentimentalgeek:

Your post about getting ready to close the distance made me so happy! It sounds like everything should work out for you! I’ve been pretty down the past week because my boyfriend was supposed to come here for his summer holidays but he just doesn’t have the money and has things he has to get done over summer at home. There have been a lot of tears recently and I’ve almost felt...

Distance Always Has Its Doubters.

I am beyond glad that I have you guys because as whiny teenager as this sounds other people just don’t get long distance relationships. As you’ve all probably read here my boyfriend and I will be closing the distance this coming September because he’s transferring schools up to Boston. But I am not the only reason he’s switching schools, he was supposed to be in Boston...

“To truly love something, you must first give it a chance to fail. If it...”

– Unknown (via vivamus)

jswagbreezyway asked: Hey! well this blog is controlled by two people with is me (julio) and my girlfriend bernice. we're also in the same situation. We live in california same city and all. we've been together for a couple months now but in those couple months, we have been through so much that it feels like we're unstoppable. well berenice is really smart. she got acceoted in to berekely witch is 6-7...

Submitted by naznaznaz: Long way from love

I’ve been in a long distance relationship for close to 4 months, we met on Omegle and we hit it off really quickly. I thought it was cute because the first night we were on cam goofing off and he kept saying he loved me! I thought it was silly at first but we kept talking and making stupid jokes. Ever since we met there isn’t one day we go without talking to each other through...

Things Are Looking Up.

Wil is currently here in Boston with me, right now he’s at his Accepted Students Day for Suffolk University and has decided he’s going to go. So that’s that. His deposit is in, he likes the school a lot. I really think things are going to work out for us this time around. I really hope it does because my favorite thing to do is be lazy with him. Last night we sat around in our...

Anonymous asked: I've been with my ldr boyfriend for over a few years now. It's not getting any easier even though I wish it did. I'm starting to slowly get jealous of his female best friend who gets to spend time with him. I don't mind them being friends, but I hate knowing she likes him. I feel insecure, and we don't talk much now. I'm lucky enough to get ten minutes of his...

Submitted by chibinatsu: This blog gives me hope...

We were just a happy couple at first, never fought, never thought the worse could have happened till last year October when we found out I had to move to another state due to family reasons. At first, a lot of people were negative towards our relationship saying it wouldn’t last for 2 months, but now we’ve been in LD for 6 months+ and proving those people wrong!! :D For a couple of...

Submitted by aiiss: My Love Story...

Well… My boyfriend and I met 2 years 4 months ago, we met in a singer’s fan community (our favourite singer). He’s from Italy, Im from Mexico We treated each other pretty nicely, and our friendship was so cute, he was always kind and sweet with me. Since the day I added him on messenger (which was like 7months after we met in the community, around August) we’ve been...

Anonymous asked: Hey. you know me but I'm being on anon right now.

i have a problem... i am so happy with my ldr boyfriend. i've never been so happy before. i've dated guys in the past but they cannot compare to my boyfriend. although he's not here, i can't kiss, touch, or hold him, i love him so much. i'm going to meet him next month and i'm so happy and excited....

Anonymous asked: I've been in a LDR for a long time now and lately we hardly talk. I'm starting to get worried and I don't know what I should think. I remember him saying he used to feel awkward not talking to me everyday, but now it's like he doesn't want to talk to me or feels like it. I'm always wanting to talk to him because it does actually feel weird if I don't even talk...

fearless-tyrant asked: So my boyfriend and I have been together for over half a year now. Although, he is graduating this month. And I still have two years to go. He plans to write pre-med evaluation tests this Summer in California, then travel all fall, and he may, perhaps come back to our school in January to raise his GPA. (My school being in Canada) However, it's totally undecided, he may end up in med school...

Anonymous asked: Okay, I met this boy on Tumblr and he's just amazing. Everything about us just clicks, and now we can spend around four/five hours on skype just talking - hell, a couple of times we reached seven. But he's literally on the other side of the world to me. I'd be prepared to wait to meet him, because there's been nobody like him, he talks me through my problems and tries to boost...

Sincerest Apologies.

My week has been very busy and stressful [although I still cannot pin point why] so I’ve been neglecting the internet, and I apologize for that. So, here are some updates! Wil sent down his deposit to Suffolk University meaning [if nothing goes horribly terribly wrong] he’ll be here in the fall with me! I wonder if it’ll be hard to adjust from being in a long distance...

loveandwineandlondon asked: Hellooo :) I just want to say I hope you have the most wonderful time with Wil this weekend and I hope everything works out to bring him closer to you! It's getting so close now to when I see Gi and I'm getting more and more excited every day! I can't imagine what it's going to be like when I see him again for the first time! We've fallen even more in love during the time...

Anonymous asked: How do I overcome jealousy? My boyfriend is in 5000++ miles away from me, and his friend is dating this one girl who i used to hate (cause she had like dirty talk with my ex boyf a few years back but thats another story), and that girl hangs out in their room EVERYDAY, like from the time their class ends, until everyone goes back. i trust him, i just dont trust her and the people around him. so...

sneakpeeknic asked: We've been together for over a year now. But it's been 4 months since I last saw him because he took off to the states for college. We're 9000 miles apart and although he'll be back in 6 weeks for summer break, it just gets harder to cope everyday. I can feel us drifting and it's sad that we rarely have anything to talk about over daily text nowadays (I hope its just a...

Anonymous asked: I don't know if you remember me, but I had asked you about my relationship without labels, and that we've been talking for four years? I had asked for help. and I just wanted to say, with what you told me it changed alot of things, we're now in a relationship, and we're spending two weeks together this summer in miami.

I don't know how to thank you.

Off to New Jersey!

So I’m posting this from my lovely seat on a Greyhound bus that cost me $36 dollars and might I say it’s worth every penny. The bus has wifi, charging plugs, no one is sitting next to me, oh, and it’s bringing me to the boy I love! I got on at 8:30am and should be to NJ in about three hours. I can’t even describe the rush I get when I first see Wils face at the bus...

caiteelise asked: Going the distance is an amazing movie. First it has my favorite Hollywood couple of all time, Justin Long and Drew Barrymore. And second, it really made me consider long distance when I watched it. At the time, I was broken up with my boyfriend because we were too scared to try long distance. And when I watched it, I bawled my eyes out and made me miss him even more. But now that we are back...

wecameascunts-deactivated201108 asked: So glad I found your blog :)!
I'm in a ldr and have been for two years, But sometimes I find it extreamly hard to cope with the distance (8hrs to travell to eachothers by car) So,
How do you cope with the distance, like what do you do to not get upset that you cant be together everynight?

Submitted by thewallflowerconfessions: OPINIONS...

I did post this on my own blog but thought I’d get better feedback on here :) Its ‘someone specials’ 21st at the beginning of July… unfortunately I live in Australia and he in England… I have not seen him for two months now..two months that seem like forever I might add. I am meant to be moving to England for student exchange in August..however I would really like to do something nice...

Long distance love is staying up way past your...

An Odd Realization...

I just ordered my bus ticket to go see Wil this weekend and I realized that this very well may be the last five hour trip we have to make to see each other. He got accepted into a school in Boston near me for next semester so if everything works out with that my LDR is going to be over before I even realize it. It’s so weird to think that a year ago today I was probably so upset over...

sunset-vine: I love these. Since my love is currently in Germany (playing playoffs for the Wolfsburg Grizzly Adams) and I am in California, I love the idea of a cutting out heart maps of both locations. I collected a couple of maps while in Germany and always have had a good amount of old United States maps laying around the house (since I was a geography major in college). This is my new...

Submitted by freckledpixie: Our Story

hello, lovely LDR community. It is so nice to read all of your stories and have people to confide in and vent to. Jason and I met last June of 2010. It’s really funny how we met. He is the God-Father to my God-Daughter; he is also my best friend’s husband’s best friend. Tongue twister, that. After hearing many stories about me from my best friend, he decided it would be a...

Anonymous asked: I don't know if it's been mentioned on this blog or anything before, but Going the Distance is a movie about a long Distance relationship between Drew Barrymore who lives in San Francisco and Justin Long who lives in New York.

My Own Love Story!

So it occurred to me that you guys have shared your love stories with me but I’ve never shared mine. So, every now and then I’m going to open up about some part of my relationship. I can’t ever write the whole thing because frankly it’d take pages upon pages to explain how me and Wil came to be boyfriend and girlfriend properly. This couple, right here, defined love for me...

Anonymous asked: I wanted your opinion.
We've been talking for about four years now, and I've always thought it was along the lines of a LDR, but he told me the other day he thought of what we have as a relationship without labels.
He still says "I love you" and "I miss you" but I don't know what he means when he says a relationship without labels. and he...

thenisweartoyou: out of sight doesn’t mean out of mind. <3

1 universe 8 planets 7 continents 100+ countries...

augmentine: Well, we met online. <3

Submitted by sentimentalgeek: Sydney-Philadelphia....

I just stumbled across your tumblr and this whole ‘ldr community’ this week and it has given me so much to think about and some comfort to know how many others are in a similar position to me. My boy lives in Philadelphia and I’m in Sydney. An ocean and continent apart. 16, 247 miles, or a 21 hour flight to be exact. We met last year as exchange students in Germany and within a...