Have you ever felt so much emotion or so much love or that feeling of just wanting to be with that person, that it feels like you might cry?
I absolutely do! I call it happy crying. I usually only do it if I’m around him though. Like if we’re talking about the future and all that stuff I get a little teary eyed [okay sometimes more than a little.]
It also happens to me when I’m in my dorm because I have a lot of pictures of him and I all over so I’ll just look at them sometimes and think how lucky I am to be in love with my best friend and I just can’t help crying just a little bit.
That’s how I’ve felt these past few weeks. I feel as if nothing of importance has happened. My mood hasn’t been to any extremes. I just keep waiting. For Wil to come this weekend. For spring break. For the end of the semester. For everything.
This is one of the things I hate about distance. All I really want is to sit down and watch TV with Wil while eating Lays Potato Chips and yet he’s three hundred miles away.
So please keep my occupied from my nothingness. Submit your love stories, ask questions, make me smile. :]
My boyfriend, Ryan and I have been talking on skype every night since the beginning of christmas break and suddenly the past two nights he just avoided talking on skype and oddly got away with it. I feel like he's up to something, he lives in virginia and I live in michigan. It's like he never wanted to spend a minute not knowing what I was up to and now he hardly cares about me. If I bring up what he's doing wrong then he gets upset with me. I don't know what to do or what he's up to, so could you possibly give me a few pointers and maybe a few ideas of what he's up to? Thank you. By the way, I adore your blog. It helps me through a lot<3(:
Hmm, well this is a bit odd. It’s not very mature that he is just avoiding even talking about it. I’d say to tell him flat out that you don’t like how things have been going. If he gets upset simply try telling him that to be in a mature relationship this kind of behavior won’t fly and the two of you need to seriously talk about this. It’s never good if one person in the relationship is upset and the other won’t listen. You need to get him to have a serious conversation about it because it isn’t fair to you that he’s acting however he wants and it’s leaving you hurting.
Thanks for the compliment and best of luck. Let me know how it turns out.<3
just came across your tumblr. it is what I’ve been looking for, a place where I know Im not alone in the adventure that is a LDR, regardless of the actual distance. after reading through some submission, I felt like giving my story :)
me and my girlfriend met at uni. She was on a year long exchange from the UK and was living in my block on college. Should prob say Im from australia at this point. The first week, which is O week (re: drinking every night) she came up to me at a bar and tried to kiss me. i turned her down, saying that it wouldnt work, as “block incest” was not so much banned as it was discouraged as if things dont work out, it couldnt be awkward for all 10 in the block.
so it was a few weeks, and texts, later and after a night out, i was getting in and she was still awake. i went in to her room and ended up saying “it wasnt you, its me”. in hindsight, not sure why i did, but i did. so that put us on the cool for awhile.
but in the following weeks, she had some other guys and i felt jealous. i liked her. that (maybe apart from the 1st week) was never in doubt. just the circumstances. but seeing her with other guys did make me jealous.
it was during the mid semester break and she was traveling and i was at home. we were texting non stop. pretty much going out, but not. the sunday night before uni started again, we were back in out block and texting (even though there was 3 feet between). i got the following text:
"i know your not going to come over, so im not going to keep my hopes up. night"
it was with this text that i got out of my bed and knocked on her door. i sat down and didnt get up for another hour. we just talked. we said that we were pretty much going out. just needed to make it a sure thing. when i went to bed, we were still single.
the next day, at 10:15, she came into my room, kissed me and said she would rather find out and fail than not try at all. we have been going out ever since.
we have spent a xmas at each others home countries. we have celebrated each others 21st, together. we have clocked up many hours of skype, money on letters and packages, tears, smiles.
we have come up with different ideas to keep going. we sent each other an email a day, timing it so we would wake up to read an email from the other, saying why the previous day was happy.
the second time at the airport was much harder. the first time, we knew i would be going over for xmas and would be apart about 5 months. we knew. now, we dont know exactly due to holidays, wedding etc. it could be 6 months or a year before we see each other next. it could be six months if i let her pay for a ticket for me to go over for her sisters wedding or she comes over here between her grad and the wedding.
as we all know it is hard. but it is worth it. while it took a bit of time for us to get adjust to being back together, once we were, it was as good as ever.
at the moment, we are waiting for me to get a router so we can skype in my room. and for our “nottingham”, the place/time/thing that makes this feel “real”.
we say we are exploring. explore the world around us, together, as once we both graduate we will have the world at our feet. with exploring comes adventure, but also misadventure. it is all part of it. and we are willing to explore it with each other.
I’ve been with this guy for 3 years before I moved to another country. He is my first boyfriend and has been the only guy I’ve been inlove with. He was my neighbor so we get to spend time together everyday so leaving him was very hard. Our last night together was the saddest night of my life. He walked me home and then in the middle of the street, he started hugging me and crying. I told him he promised not to cry but he said he couldn’t stop thinking about how everyday, I used to come over his house anytime but then tomorrow, I wouldn’t be there. It broke my heart. I am just so happy that despite being into different continents plus the 12 hour difference, we are together. There’s the fights and breakups, but still we manage to get through it. Its our fourth year together on the 28th. Happy 4th Anniversary love. :)
I haven’t been posting a lot of my own words lately so, yesterday was fantastic, as were the last weekend. Wil surprised me by having a friend of mine deliver me red [my favorite color] flowers from him and around the same time he got a super secret package I sent him! Full of his favorite candy, tea, a love letter, handmade valentines and two volumes of The Walking Dead! All in all it was a great day, I felt so close to him despite all the distance.
But now it’s back to reality, back to work and class and college life. The next two weeks are going to be stressful but it’ll be really rewarding when I finally see Wil. And then a week after that I get spring break! This semester is really going to fly by once I get back from break. But that won’t stop the days where I’m so lonely without him, or angry that it costs nearly $60 just to kiss him, I’ll just have to get by.
Every time I think about how hard distance is I come here and see all of you guys, making it work. It really does inspire me.
To the most amazing girl in the entire world. You are my light, and my angel, and my spoonette and I’ll always love you; even if we’re far apart today I hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day. Just knowing you love me means I know I’ll have a good one. :)
I love you very much Wil, I hope you’re having a great day. You’re the best part of my day no matter how far away you are. You’re my hero and you always know how to make me smile. I love you and hope you’re having a great day
I'm in a long distance relationship & at times we both get tired of just sittin' on skype and let time pass. Do you have any ideas of what we can do to make it feel more like were in a relationship, or just to spice it up!
Well Wil and I like to play the little games like Battleship that you can play over Skype. Something else we do is we watch TV “together”. We both have Netflix accounts and go on and pick a show, Netflix offers a TON of great shows to watch on Instant Watch, and press play at the same time while we’re on the phone with each other, then we go on Skype. It passes time and give the two of you something to walk about.
Oh, and the shows I recommend are Dexter, Firefly, Weeds, Pushing Daises, and Arrested Development. [I’m a huge fan of TV, haha}
I really hope this helps! Stay tuned in to my posts because I post a lot on things like this. :]
I have loved reading the stories and posts on here, and thought I would add my own :)
Mine started in 2009. I was in my first year at university and after a couple of months of seeing a few different people I met Michael. He worked in one of the bars and we got talking. Next day I went christmas shopping and found him working in a cd store. We were both surprised and got chatting again. I started to go to the bar more often but we never spoke much about personal information. When he added me on facebook we found we had mutual friends. Including my best friend. Turns out were were from a 10minute drive apart, but were both 250 miles from home at the university. We started seeing each other and it was great. Those are still some of my happiest days of that year :) He told me early on he had accepted a job abroad and would be leaving in the new year. We decided to go ahead anyway and we became an official
couple in the December 2009. He left in the March. It’s been a LDR ever since. In total we have spent around 6 weeks of the last 10months actually together. And I still wouldn’t change anything.
We have our plans for the future which involve me taking a job in the same country after graduation. I love him and know this will all be worth it in the end :)
Hello hello hello, I love this blog and decided I wanted to be a part of it, so here is my story! :)
I met my boyfriend, Trevor, just before the start of our senior year. (summer ‘09) We were both in the band, and we got placed next to each other for warm ups during marching season. We became really good friends over the course of the first semester, and I had the HUGEST crush on him the whole time. But he actually dated my friend Emily for a few months of the fall semester, so I kept my crush to myself, even after they broke up in December.
When we came back from break in January ‘10, he started acting slightly different around me - we (finally) exchanged phone numbers, he walked me to rehearsals after school, he talked to me more than he had before, just little things. We started texting allllll the time, and I started thinking that maybe he liked me back. Which he did! :) He asked me to be his date to our senior prom on Valentine’s Day, and six days later he asked me to be his girlfriend after driving me home after a friend’s party. :) (Our 1 year anniversary is in 10 days! AHHHH!) We definitely fell in love quickly, and I was literally the happiest I had ever been.
As the end of the year approached, though, we had a big talk about what we wanted to do after graduation. Trevor was leaving in early July to attend the US Merchant Marine Academy in New York, while I would be staying home (in the Dallas area) to start taking classes at the community college in the fall. Neither one of us could stand the thought of not being with each other, so we decided to stay together once he’d left for school. The first few weeks he was gone were some of the hardest I’ve ever experienced. As a freshman (or ‘plebe’), he had to participate in a boot-camp-like training called Indoc before the actual school year started. He wasn’t able to call me during those 3 weeks, and I only got one letter from him. After that, we started writing more frequently, and it got even easier as the plebes were allowed more freedoms. (Such as getting their phones back, so he could text me goodnight every evening and call me on Sunday afternoons, and getting their laptops, so we could message each other on Facebook)
It’s definitely been a crazy year. Going from seeing Trevor almost every day, to ZERO communication, to slowly increasing (but still somewhat limited) communication has been hard. The fact that he’s only been home for a grand total of about 3 and a half weeks since he first left last July has been even harder. But we’re still madly in love with each other, and we’ve become even stronger as a couple, as well as individually. We’re both in this for the long haul - which includes him being out at sea for roughly 8 months over the next two years, and him being gone several months out of the year even after he graduates. But Trevor still makes me the happiest I’ve felt in my whole life, and I’m not willing to let something as silly as physical distance get in the way of loving the most amazing person I’ve ever met. :)
(Sorry this is ginormous. I’m an English Ed. major, writing’s kind of my thing. :P)
I follow quite a few LDR blogs but this one is BY FAR my favorite. It's the only one that relates to the different types of LDRs and actually gives advice to those who need it. I don't feel alone in this! Stay awesome :}
Ahh! Thank you so much! Comments like this make me really glad I started this blog [well, all the comments I get make me happy I started this blog but you get the point] Thank you, I’m so glad you like my blog.
Omg, I have a question and I need your answer asap!! I still haven't decided what I'm doing for him this valentines day... I've got the card and the key (but it looks girly, I don't know if I should buy it.. only reason I'm thinking of buying it is because it's our thing..), then I'm thinking of baking, but I was about to practice yesterday and my dad told me it's broken. HELP MEEEEEEEEEEE! what are you doing for him?? thank youuu xxx
Oh my! Well I say go with the key since it your thing with him. He’ll appreciate it. And I don’t have anything in particular planned for him because we’ll just be going out to dinner but I’ve got ideas!
I think a care package is a killer idea, fill it with:
a bunch of his favorite candy
some tea or coffee or what ever he likes to drink
A DVD or comic book that he likes
Hand made Valentines day cards
A hand written note of why you love him
A USB filled with songs that remind you of him
One of my followers is actually “buying” her boyfriend dinner from Chilis even though they’re across the country from each other. Here!
I’d say a bunch of little things that are really meaningful, trust me, he’ll appreciate anything you give him. Just make it from the heart. :]
I’m going home tomorrow! Back to New Jersey for the weekend to take care of some stuff and go on an actual Valentines Day date with Wil. I feel like it hasn’t even hit me yet that I’m actually going home and going to get to see him again. And it should be hitting me because I have to do all my packing still…but tomorrow at noon I’m leaving Boston and should be back to New Jersey by 6pm!
Can’t wait to be home with my friends and family and the love of my life. :]
Submitted by: onlyloveremainsx3: It's like a fairy-tale, I promise
Let me start off by saying I love you blog, and I love your dedication to your relationship. It gives me hope in the world that there aren’t only people out there to trash and doubt your relationship that you care so much about. There’s people like you who believe in strength, have faith, and hope that you’ll be with the one you love one day despite the unfortunate circumstances now. So thank you, and I wish you and your love the best.
My story started off late July in 2010, when my brother and I went on vacation with my aunt and a family we knew in Kentucky. Our trip was to cover Toronto, Niagara Falls, and New York City. And I’m from little big Dallas, Texas. When I first met Steven, I felt something instantly, as cheesy as that sounds. But I knew we weren’t just random people meeting, something felt like it was supposed to happen. Our trip lasted for a week, and we were with each other for every single day of that whole week. He and I first actually let our guard down and started being more expressive of our feelings towards each other at Niagara Falls. When we got to New York, the thing we wanted to stress the most to eachother was that, despite the attraction we had towards each other, this isn’t something we want to pursue over time. He lived in Kentucky, I lived in Texas, a lovely 718 miles away from each other. But as we were saying all of these things, how we didn’t want this and this was just for fun, he held my hand the entire time throughout our walk around the city. Around the afternoon that day, his parents and I went to dinner at Charley O’s, and things didn’t feel so unnatural anymore. They felt right, it felt like I had known him for YEARS, just sitting in that restaurant and having dinner. We went the last night in the middle of Times Square, sitting on this huge red red-stairs(the TKTS booth), not saying much and just watching the large massive crowds of people explore Times Square. He worked up the courage and he kissed me. Nothing too rough, just a light kiss on my lips. To which, I so gracefully responded by pushing his face away (FAIL). It was so weird to feel everything at once. I don’t know if you’ve ever had that feeling when things just overwhelm you, because you know your happiness right there is JUST LIKE A DREAM, and there’s NO WAY it can be real, because these things just don’t happen. I’m a cynic, sorry. We went back to the hotel, went in our separate rooms and my head and heart were racing. I looked at my brother, bit my lip, and said “He kissed me, right in the middle of Times Square.” to which he responded, “Oh jeez ..”
The day after, we headed back to Kentucky, where I had one more day left before I went home. We spent the whole night talking, and my feelings for him got stronger than ever. There was not a spot where I laid my hands on him that did not arise goosebumps on his skin. We spent the last day, regular movies and lunch before I had to leave. We didn’t know what was going to happen after that, just that the feelings and experiences we shared together were unforgettable.
He came to see me a month later, and officially asked me to please give this a try, because he really does love me. CRAZY, I know. And it’s been 6 months since. We see each other every month, not nearly enough, but I am very blessed that I have at least that. His family is supportive of our relationship at least, and he has driven 12 hours to see me for just a weekend on countless occasions. THAT’S DEDICATION. And I’ll be seeing him for 4 days on February 18, for Valentine’s Day <3 So when people look down on my relationship, I always have our story to think about, and know that they’re wrong. People who live 10 minutes away from each other, will NEVER do the things that we’d do. Just because they see each other every day, doesn’t mean they know SHIT. I love you, Steven Philip Thai. You are the dream that’s never ended. I want you forever, and I’ll do anything to make it work.
Do you have cyber sex? or show your bodies on cam when you both get horny?
i just want to know because im curious of how people on LDR do it on their horny moments... Just please be honest.
Well, here’s a topic I’ve never written about! Should be interesting! As far as cyber sex goes or cam stuff, I’m not a huge fan of it. Something about it makes me a little uncomfortable, just seeing the other person naked and whatnot but not actually being there.
Something I’m a fan of when those feeling…arise [:P] is texting [or sexting, whatever the kids are calling it these days]. Just kind of telling the other person what you want and what you would do if you were there, plus a picture or two. That’s personally what I do, but that things like Skype sex are quite common and a lot of people really enjoy it!
I just wanted to say that this is my fave LDR Tumblr I’ve seen. I read your posts like I do with novels [I’m a bookworm] and I can really feel from your posts and pictures.
I am also in a LDR— I’m CA and he’s NJ. It sucks knowing that there’s someone right here who loves him and would do anything for him, but he has to be over there with the people who have used and damaged him.
However, I think that what we have is more real than the other relationships I see around me. Distance does indeed make the heart grow fonder, and hopefully in May of this year I get to see him!
Well, I’ll cut my story’s synopsis here. Keep up the good work on this blog!
I saw your post about you and your boyfriend being six hours away from eachother. I would give anything in the world to be six hours away from mine. I live in Texas and he lives in Liverpool, UK. Seeing him once or twice a month would be a total DREAM. you are extremely lucky, I hope you know that.
I know how lucky I am, believe me. Starting up this blog has really shown me that six hours is nothing compared to some people. But LDR isn’t really a competition, it’s not “Well I’m further than that person is from their boyfriend so mine is more of an LDR!” I just started this blog for anyone (including myself) who needed a place to talk to people about it. But believe me, I know how lucky I am.
I just wanted to say thanks for this blog for so many reasons. When I first started dating my boyfriend I thought it was weird because I had only met him a small handful of times, and yet I was dating him and completely in love with him. When I first met him, we were living in the same city, but I didn't want to get into something because I knew that I was leaving in a few months for school and at best I would only have been able to see him once every few months at best. So he asked and I said no, which was probably one of the hardest things I had ever done.
What was even harder was when I said no, he started dating someone from his school, and when I realised how much that hurt, I figured the whole long distance thing wouldn't be too bad. So he broke up with his girlfriend before I left, asked me out again, and for one reason or another, I said no again. It took him a month of trying, and whenI went home in October, I couldn't keep doing it, so I asked him.
My parents just thought that it was weird, starting to date after I had moved five hours away, but it was one of those things that I couldn't explain - like I was supposed to be doing this. And maybe all of their nagging and questioning had gotten to be a bit, because when they started to get on my case about the situation, I started to doubt it. But every single time I got to see him, I knew why I was doing it.
And then this blog started following me and I started reading all of these stories, and seeing that I wasn't the only person doing this - because if How I met Your Mother has taught me anything, it's that long distance relationships don't work - and I started feeling better about the whole thing. Because there were other people, and it worked for other people, so maybe I shouldn't let what my parents say effect me so much. Before this blog I had never known terms like LDR or things like that.
So this is delayed, but thank-you for following me, because without this blog there would be a whole lot more questioning than I would like there to be, and I feel so much more confident in my own relationship - because I've always known that I love him - it just took something like this for me to realise that despite the distance, it has more than potential to work. <3
That’s great that you two got together eventually. And yeah, sometimes parents won’t understand things like that. At first my parents were really wary of me going in to a long distance relationship, they didn’t think I could handle it, or maybe that our relationship wasn’t strong enough. Of course it’s hard to know that your parents don’t exactly support something you’re doing but in the end you just have to prove them wrong. That’s what Wil and I did and now my parents take our relationship very seriously.
I suppose not a lot of people understand why two people would want to be in a relationship even if they’re hours apart but they don’t have to. As long as you and him are happy together don’t worry about people who doubt it.
As for this blog, that’s the exact reason I created it! I was feeling alone in my situation and figured I couldn’t be the only one who was dealing with it. So I wanted to create a place where all of us could come together, share stories and ideas and know we’re not alone. This community is so supportive of each other and it’s great that we can help each other out.
I’m so glad you’re more confident in your relationship now because you absolutely should be. Distance should never be the end of a relationship. As long as you know you love him there will always be a reason to keep trying.
so me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months now but of course our relationship is long distance and its soo fuckin hard to deal with the fact tat i cnt be with him everyday. but the thing im worried about is when he goes to college next yr and im a senior next yr and its liek im so scared tat hes gunna leave me because we cnt see each other bec my school hates him. and i feel liek tat if im not with him hes goin g to go back to his old ways whitch were fuckin gurl and doing drugs and its like i keep tellin him no other gurl he dates will every go through what i have done and gone through with him. also i fuckin cnt stand when he talks to this bitch gabby but ik there just friends but this gurl is fuckin obessed with him and its soo fuckin annoying bec its like she wont leave him alone and i have told him again and again how i feel about that so its like idk wat to do bec ik the sec we do break up if we do shes gunna try and have him... and she is not good for him bec all she wants from him is sex and i cnt see him going back into the old faiz tat i knew lst yr... all of this is prob boring you but all im scared about is losing him and and i told him tat i would wait a yr for him till i turn 18 to move in with him so idk wat i should do he keeps tellin me i should think about the future but its like how am i not suppose to when im so fuckin in love with him
Well, it seems like you have a lot on your plate here. College can be a huge strain on a relationship but there are so many ways to stay in touch with one another. If you’re really afraid he’s going to cheat or take up drug use again you have to talk to him calmly about that, if he doesn’t listen or says he’s going to do it anyway I’d take a serious look at your relationship. You don’t want to be with someone who puts drugs and other girls ahead of you.
As for this Gabby girl I completely understand. I’m a pretty jealous person myself even when my relationship with my boyfriend wasn’t long distance. It can be tough seeing some girl blatantly flirt with your boyfriend, and it can be really easy to jump to conclusions about it but just try your best to know that if your boyfriend really cares about you chances are he isn’t even giving that other girl a second thought. If she really makes you uncomfortable it’s not a bad thing to have a calm conversation with your boyfriend about it.
As for moving in with him make sure you really want to do it. Don’t do it just because you think it will keep him from cheating or doing drugs because you’ll end up unhappy that way. If you decide to move in with him make sure it’s because you both want to seriously start a life together.
I wish you the best of luck in your relationship. If you need me don’t hesitate to message me.<3
Today Someone Told Me That I Wasn't In A Long Distance Relationship...
…and I damn near freaked out on her.
My roommates sister is staying the night and my roommate is semi-interested in someone who lives halfway across the country and her sister was lecturing her saying “They never work, it’s pointless" and things around this manner. Just hearing all this made me mad. But then my roommate said "Well Kayleigh [me] and her boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and they make it work really well!" And her sister looks at me and goes "They’re only like an hour and a half hours apart! That’s not long distance at all!" To which I interrupted "Uhm, we’re six hours apart. Not an hour and a half.” And all she said back was “Six hours isn’t far at all, it still isn’t a long distance relationship.”
Really? You try being in a relationship where you see your boyfriend once or twice a month. And who gave you the power of deciding what a “long distance relationship” is or isn’t?
It’s people like this who annoy me to no end. They’ve never been in a long distance relationship yet they think that they can pass judgment and say they don’t work. They have no idea how much work a long distance relationship is and yet they have the nerve to tell us that they “never” work.
Don’t listen to people like this. No one can tell you that something won’t work or that your relationship isn’t “that far apart”. Chances are these people have never even been in a long distance relationship. You will run into a lot of people who doubt that relationships like this can thrive and they will tell you it’s pointless to even try but never give up on someone you love. Love is always worth it.
Goodnight guys, hope you’re all having a good night.<3
So it’s Tuesday which means it’s TMI Tuesday, which means you guys can ask my anything. If there’s something you’re curious about I’d love to tell!
I would also tell you guys to recommend me but Tumblr doesn’t think having a “Relationship” section in the directory is necessary. *sigh* Mayble that’ll change someday.
But while I’ve got all your attention, I’m heading back to New Jersey on Friday for the weekend, and I’m actually going to get to celebrate Valentines Day with Wil. Do you guys have anything planned? Any nifty ideas for LDR Valentines Day? :]
Jealousy. It’s definitely the thing I struggle most with when it comes to relationships, and distance makes it a hundred times more difficult to deal with. I mean, my boyfriend goes to a school that’s nicknamed Slutgers. Not the most comforting thing.
I bring this up because Wil is at a party tonight and to be honest it makes me really nervous. I know the kind of people who will be at the party, and to be honest I don’t trust them. They’re not the…classiest bunch.
But, I trust him. Something my mom has always told me is that "You have to trust someone until they break that trust." She’s always taught me to see the good in people and believe they are good until the do something that proves otherwise.
So, I guess I’m going to have to deal with my green monster tonight.
Also, I won’t get to Skype Wil tonight which is not helping my mood at all :[
Before I left for spring semester Wil came to my house with a bunch of red flowers. I unfortunately couldn’t bring all of them so I just picked one, put it in an Arizona Ice Tea bottle and took it on the 300 mile drive to my dorm with me.
But today, after two and a half weeks, it finally died. :[
I kept it next to a picture from our senior prom, I’m going to miss it. :’[
Oh the bright side, tomorrow I’ll be buying a bus ticket back to New Jersey for Valentines Day weekend.
So we’ve only got 12 more days until it, and while we can’t spend the day with our valentine there’s a bunch of other things we can do.
This is going to be my first Valentines Day without Wil there, last year he took me on a great date and showed up to my house with one rose, which was fantastic seeing as no one had ever given me flowers before. I’m rambling now, whoops. Anyway, the point of that was to say that you don’t have to be together to have a wonderful day!
Something I suggest is a really thoughtful care package that, if sent on the right date, gets there on the 14th. There are literally hundreds of things that one could send!
-A USB with pictures of you, you two together, songs that you want them to have, movies, ect…
-A handmade card.
-A list of reasons why you love them.
-A journal that the two of you can write in and send back and forth.
-Some of their favorite snacks.
-Something they’ll enjoy reading, like a book, comic book, or a magazine.
-Candy! Because, who doesn’t like that.
-Something sexy ;D [This is something I’ve yet to touch on in my blog but there are tons of ways to, uhm, keep each other “satisfied” even when hundreds of miles are between you]
-Print out some actual photos of you or the two of you that your significant other can hang around their room or keep with them.
-[If you’re within close enough distance and have the money to] Train, plane or bus tickets for them.
That’s all the ideas I’ve got right now but if you guys have any others please let us all know!