He did have this problem in the beginning, and now after so many years he’s more adaptive. We are fortunate enough to be able to see each other once a month for 3-5 days.
I asked him how he dealt with the distance and he said it was to talk to me. To hear my voice, or facetime me. It was to be in constant communication with me.
Hopefully this helps love!
I don’t think I can put my relationship into words, but I’ll try.
My LDR is hard but rewarding every day. On a day to day basis Trey and I text maybe anywhere from 15-25 times a day, so not that much, and talk anywhere from 1-2 hours in total in a day. We’ve both been so busy lately ( him with prepping for grad school and me applying to grad schools) it can get pretty chaotic.
There is one thing that we have done from the beginning which is every Sunday night we face time for about 2-4 hours and catch up with each other. On Wednesday nights we get pizza and work on whatever we need to get done while with each other on face time.
So in no way is my LDR perfect.
As to how I deal with missing him, I just wear his shirts and listen to his voice when I can. It’s hard but I think that over the years I’ve learned how to tough it out, and I’ve grown thicker skin.
Could you clarify what you mean by “The whole sex thing”.