Hi my name is Gracie and I have been in a long distnace relationship for almost three years now. I love my boyfriend so much and it’ll be three years this October. I do want to marry him someday. We are apart right now to go to school to get good job so that we can live with one another someday and support one another. It is very hard and sometimes it’s so hard I cannot take it. It’s been a year since I’ve seen him in person but we will hopefully see each other this August.
Then Don’t? I’m confused, is this a question or a confession..
This is something that if you truly trust him and love him, then without a doubt you would stand by his side.
But my grandmother always told me ” once a cheater, always a cheater”
Honey, it’s up to you.
Hi ! I’m relatively new to your blog, and I too am in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I met on Superbowl Sunday this year. And ever since then we have seen each other 6 times total. I am a senior at a boarding school in new England, and will be heading to WPI next fall. I live in Charlotte, NC which is about a 13 hour drive from her house. She is finishing up her junior year at a public school near Hartford, CT. She is very emotional, and touchy feely. She loves to cuddle.
While we only spent actual time together only 6 times. Each was an unforgettable magical moment. The first was on Superbowl Sunday. The second was the day of my flight back to NC for my spring break. The third time was during a weekend of a Robotics (FRC) competition in Hartford. The fourth time was at my school’s prom. The fifth time was spending Saturday night at her house (No sex. Just cuddling). We spent together cuddling really. The last time was at her prom. And I spent that weekend at her house again. Now, the next time I will see her will be for a week, when she comes to visit me in NC this summer. That won’t be for another month and a half.
We are having a difficult time dealing with the separation and the LITERAL space between us. We WANT to stay together, because she is everything to me. We love each other. Though, the pain of being this far apart is nearly killing us. We may still be in the honeymoon phase as some might say.
I would just like to hear how others deal with long distance relationships. I was also looking for help. What should I do? What else should I say to her to comfort her? How can we cope with this? How can we make it seem that time apart won’t be so miserable? In the end, I ONLY WANY WHAT IS BEST FOR HER. I really appreciate your time.
I miss him so much and its been a week since I left Trinidad & I miss him already I don’t think I could do this he lives in Trinidad & I live in Canada & I have to wait 7 more months until I get to see him again & what makes it worst he was my first time so that makes it even harder to stop thinking about him sometime I lay in bed and imagine him there holding me tight so no one can take me from him kissing me like its are last time ever when I was in Trinidad we would lay in bed together all day & just cuddle we didn’t care about what they said about us we are in love with each other
I kid you not, that I personally went through the same thing. In all honesty I still have that friend that still doesn’t understand, or approves of my relationship.
As rude as this may sound, they can go to hell. They don’t understand what it takes to be in a LDR. The frustrations, and the commitment we make to ourselves, and our partners. I don’t think I have the patience anymore to share certain things regarding my relationship with my friend shelby, simply because she ridicules my relationship.
I honestly don’t think there’s any way to get them to understand without sitting down, with an open mind. Explaining everything, and having them be understanding.
Sorry I really didn’t give you an answer.
You can probably look through the archive of this blog, and find the previous posts I’ve made. Hopefully they help!
This is for my girlfriend, for her to see whenever I’m not there:
I love you so very much, you beautiful, wonderful girl, and even six months later I can hardly believe you’re mine, and I’m yours.
No matter the miles, no matter the hours, no matter we’ve never met, I’ll wait as long as it takes to see your smile in person, to kiss you and to hold you and to tell you I love you and hear you say it back.
And all those daydreams I tell you about?
I really hope they become more than just daydreams some day.
:3
Hello there. I’m so happy I found this blog. I’ve always known I’m not the only one out there with a LDR, and I never thought that I’d be in this kind of situation, but here I am.
I’m the kind of girl who doesn’t really fall in love, the one who thought that I would never love anyone as to commit in a relationship, but Cupid got me. I met my bf while being an exchange student in CA, and then went back to my country but remained friends with him. Feelings developed and we became bf-gf. We don’t skype that often as we would like, but we keep in contact all day long through Facebook chat and WhatsApp.
So, the girl who thought would never love, is soooo madly in love with someone who’s miles away apart, and there are days that she just cries and cries because she misses her boyfriend so much.