Long Distance Love

Almost three years

Hi my name is Gracie and I have been in a long distnace relationship for almost three years now. I love my boyfriend so much and it’ll be three years this October. I do want to marry him someday. We are apart right now to go to school to get good job so that we can live with one another someday and support one another. It is very hard and sometimes it’s so hard I cannot take it. It’s been a year since I’ve seen him in person but we will hopefully see each other this August.

2 notes - 31 May, 2012

Long story of how we met so I’ll try to make in short. Flo and I first met on twitter, thanks to a mutual friend of us Merveille (he’s an actor and he played Thomas in the british tv show called Skins), she asked him something and I replied to her. That’s how we first talked. She said it was love at the first sight when she saw my icon. I didn’t because at the moment I had someone in my head plus I thought she was straight since she had a boyfriend. And I had no self confident so I could never imagine a gorgeous girl like her having a crush on someone like…me. We were friends and we met in my city when she came to visit her family. I saw a few pictures of her before seeing her in real and I was like “wow, she’s stunning!” but she was still in a relationship and I thought I had no chance since she didn’t tell me she was in to girls too. She knew I liked girls but was too shy to tell me how she felt and didn’t want our friendship to end in case I didn’t want her back. So she kept everything for herself and we spend nearly a year acting like we didn’t have feelings for each other. We weren’t close at all but each time she came to Paris, we spend time together like two friends living far away. Then on July 17th (2011) I posted a few words here on tumblr asking for help and she responded. We talked from 11pm to I think 3 or 4 am. She told me she had a crush on me and I first thought she was kidding me. After a few minutes, I realised she wasn’t and since that night, I’m the most happiest girl in the world. I would have never imagined finding the love of my life so young and I wish to everyone the same pure and simple love story. She’s perfect for me and I can’t wait for this distance to disappear. We’re 255 miles away from each other. She’s lives in Geneva (Switzerland) and I’m from Paris. We talk each night after school/work and we see each other once a month, It’s hard but it worth it so stay strong and be patient. Next month we will celebrate our first year together and for the first time we will be together for more than a little weekend. I can’t wait to see her again. I can’t wait to spend a whole summer week in her arms. I love her so much <3 She’s my everything. Feel free to follow my love or myself :)

Anonymous: Hi, My name is Gracie, I have been in a relationship with my guy for two years now. This October will be a third year together and I love him very much. Out of these three years we've lived together for four. I have visited him twice in California (where he lives I live in Kansas) and we talk every day. But you see I get so nervous. Sometimes it's just stupid like I get nervous and paranoid over things I shouldn't. I get nervous over silly things like he's tired or me or he doesn't want me

Then Don’t? I’m confused, is this a question or a confession..

- 30 May, 2012

Anonymous: My long distance boyfriend of 6 months had sex with another girl 3 months ago. Hsits really truely is sorry about it. But the fact that he didn't want to wait for me worries me & I'm scared he is going to cheat again...I dont know what to do. I love him with all my heart. He is my dream guy & I can't imagine my life without him, that is why I didn't leave him when he cheated but he brought up recently that he misses sex but promises he wil wait for me now, should Ibelieve

This is something that if you truly trust him and love him, then without a doubt you would stand by his side.

But my grandmother always told me ” once a cheater, always a cheater”

Honey, it’s up to you.

- 30 May, 2012

LDR in need…

Hi ! I’m relatively new to your blog, and I too am in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I met on Superbowl Sunday this year. And ever since then we have seen each other 6 times total. I am a senior at a boarding school in new England, and will be heading to WPI next fall. I live in Charlotte, NC which is about a 13 hour drive from her house. She is finishing up her junior year at a public school near Hartford, CT. She is very emotional, and touchy feely. She loves to cuddle.

While we only spent actual time together only 6 times. Each was an unforgettable magical moment. The first was on Superbowl Sunday. The second was the day of my flight back to NC for my spring break. The third time was during a weekend of a Robotics (FRC) competition in Hartford. The fourth time was at my school’s prom. The fifth time was spending Saturday night at her house (No sex. Just cuddling). We spent together cuddling really. The last time was at her prom. And I spent that weekend at her house again. Now, the next time I will see her will be for a week, when she comes to visit me in NC this summer. That won’t be for another month and a half.

We are having a difficult time dealing with the separation and the LITERAL space between us. We WANT to stay together, because she is everything to me. We love each other. Though, the pain of being this far apart is nearly killing us. We may still be in the honeymoon phase as some might say.

I would just like to hear how others deal with long distance relationships. I was also looking for help. What should I do? What else should I say to her to comfort her? How can we cope with this? How can we make it seem that time apart won’t be so miserable? In the end, I ONLY WANY WHAT IS BEST FOR HER. I really appreciate your time.

3 notes - 25 May, 2012

Keon Alexander

I miss him so much and its been a week since I left Trinidad & I miss him already I don’t think I could do this he lives in Trinidad & I live in Canada & I have to wait 7 more months until I get to see him again & what makes it worst he was my first time so that makes it even harder to stop thinking about him sometime I lay in bed and imagine him there holding me tight so no one can take me from him kissing me like its are last time ever when I was in Trinidad we would lay in bed together all day & just cuddle we didn’t care about what they said about us we are in love with each other

- 24 May, 2012

Anonymous: Me and my LDB have been dating for over a year now, and all of my friends know about everything, and know how in love we are. But my closest friends, for some reason don't approve of the whole situation. They know how happy I am. And whenever him and I get in one little fight, they find that to be a reason to tell me to break up with him. So, this get's in the way and I feel like I can't talk to them about anything that has to do with him. How do I get them to understand?

I kid you not, that I personally went through the same thing. In all honesty I still have that friend that still doesn’t understand, or approves of my relationship.

As rude as this may sound, they can go to hell. They don’t understand what it takes to be in a LDR. The frustrations, and the commitment we make to ourselves, and our partners. I don’t think I have the patience anymore to share certain things regarding my relationship with my friend shelby, simply because she ridicules my relationship.

I honestly don’t think there’s any way to get them to understand without sitting down, with an open mind. Explaining everything, and having them be understanding.

Sorry I really didn’t give you an answer.

- 23 May, 2012

Anonymous: I've been dating my boyfriend/bestfriend for almost a year. We're insanely in love & seriously feel like we could not live without each other. Im going to college in boston next year & hes staying in cali. Any advice ?

You can probably look through the archive of this blog, and find the previous posts I’ve made. Hopefully they help!

- 18 May, 2012

Submission

This is for my girlfriend, for her to see whenever I’m not there:

I love you so very much, you beautiful, wonderful girl, and even six months later I can hardly believe you’re mine, and I’m yours.

No matter the miles, no matter the hours, no matter we’ve never met, I’ll wait as long as it takes to see your smile in person, to kiss you and to hold you and to tell you I love you and hear you say it back.

And all those daydreams I tell you about?

I really hope they become more than just daydreams some day.

4 notes - 14 May, 2012

I thought I would never fall in love

Hello there. I’m so happy I found this blog. I’ve always known I’m not the only one out there with a LDR, and I never thought that I’d be in this kind of situation, but here I am.

I’m the kind of girl who doesn’t really fall in love, the one who thought that I would never love anyone as to commit in a relationship, but Cupid got me. I met my bf while being an exchange student in CA, and then went back to my country but remained friends with him. Feelings developed and we became bf-gf. We don’t skype that often as we would like, but we keep in contact all day long through Facebook chat and WhatsApp.

So, the girl who thought would never love, is soooo madly in love with someone who’s miles away apart, and there are days that she just cries and cries because she misses her boyfriend so much.

2 notes - 11 May, 2012

So time for bed. I miss boyfriend, time to snuggle up to his jacket.

she-dreams-of-paradise1:

hahaha yess!

18 notes - 10 May, 2012

“I’m just asking to see you because I don’t want to lose you. Fuck the miles, fuck them. I’ll be here and you’ll be there and we’ll just be long-distance, because quite frankly, I’m crazy about you.”